Being rude really effects everything about you

Are they rude to you? Does it happen always or are you just thinking they are being rude to you. Have you tried walking in their shoe

Have u been rude to them, did you apologize for your actions. what was on your mind then , do you have explanation for your behaviour ,its better we elaborate these questions and get the concept better . But first, the thing to always keep in mind believing in decency will never let you down

There would be many explanations for being arrogant at a certain period of time. Some reasons can be acceptable while some are just drivel.

What’s actually being rude:

This term refer to a bad and impolite manner. which also involves ignorance, argument, judgement, interrupting behaviour, bad mouthing, admonition, gossiping.

We shouldn’t let others rude behaviour hamper our productivity. Rudeness is a kind of negative emotion where emotions are contagious it might impact on other people. It is a spiral thing, to get control on emotions we should pause and take a deep breath. Rudeness tarnishes innocent

When someone are being rude to you

Do they usually always show up with that nature for everyone or just with catching up on you? if that’s only with you the problem might be probably you or in some cases I like to add that they’re just being jealous of you.

Does that happen always with you, have you tried understanding them or just reminding them how they’ve been acting. Sometimes it’s okay to fix others , acting total shrink, when it is your job that’s cool and always a nice thing to do . But that’s not always your job to fix others. It’s important to remind yourselves that moron can’t be fixed if you try doing that without having basic knowledge you’ll eventually become a moron, these are the words my mom used to remind me every time while I was falling for toxic guys ( trying to fix them) , I never listen to her and regret later.

We have to ignore their rude nature and avoid responding not in every scenario. In some cases we have to speak up for ourselves regarding their behaviour

If they are close to you correct them in private, intelligence always wins over negative mind we can’t control someone’s lame attitude but we can control ours so we should choose our actions wisely while correcting them.

Coming to Us in being rude:

There can be many reasons as we come to speak in our favour like stress, past, trauma, etc..,

We always talk about what inside you is what it matters, actually at a first glance what’s outside also matters like how we behave , how we treat the person with us , how we behave with the waiter or waitress or the random people we encounter in our day . don’t bring the grumpy face to the table.

Healing is painful, yeah but isn’t it the fruitful work to do. don’t let your past control the now “you”. Leave that heavy bag of dirt sack behind you which is pulling you apart from being your true-self.

Things to remind ourselves on daily bases to protect us drowning from being toxic

Having a grip on emotions handling your emotions is all that mater in the end. healing is painful , but yeah ! that is the fruitful work to do. We can’t handle everything in our lives

Setting boundaries won’t let the others limit your ecstasy

Being yourself: you can’t control someone’s ill mannered, but can control your own raising above the fray

Reflect the real you what are you inside can’t be seen, it is all what outside at the first glance.

Self- assurance knowing your worth comes within. Do not let your past control you (the present you), leave those dirt sacks behind they are suffocating you.

Take a break from day wreaker: it’s just like smoking, it effects both the health of smoker and the passive smoker. when we first start the day facing people with negativity like hearing arguments , complaining on everything , bullying , criticism . they might show results on us they might ruin our whole day , we should try to avoid those situations in the start of the day , and we should learn to control our rest of the day.

Be an early riser not everyone day start good but it is in our hands to control or even change the entire day, we always get a chance to save ourselves from getting stuck in irrational behaviour